http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:22:13 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/images/insignia/misc/rss.jpg http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151786-what-point-should-i-freak-out-heavy-menstration-terrible-pain.html Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:43:18 GMT My period has been VERY heavy. I change my super duper absorbency tampon every 1.5 hours to 2 hours. The pain is horrendous. However, they don't feel like the cramps I normally get. Usually I cramp a day before and first day of and then I'm good. It has been a constant dull pain for the past 4 days.

I JUST had a pap last week and everything was fine. I'm wondering if I should just call my doctor and ask him what to do. I have other medical problems and am very tired of going to see medical professionals.

Three years ago I bled for a month straight. After passing out at work, my co-workers MADE me go to the doctor. (yeah, it got THAT bad before I did something about it.) I had an ultrasound and nothing was there. I've been on birth control ever since to regulate my cycle.

My mother died of endometrial cancer, so I don't want to take this lightly. I also don't want to think that every time I have the slightest issue with my girlie bits that I have cancer.

I think I know what advice you will give me, but I suppose I just need to hear it. ]]> Ladies Lounge ZombieSquirrel http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151786-what-point-should-i-freak-out-heavy-menstration-terrible-pain.html http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151764-used-regular-what-happened.html Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:12:20 GMT I'm normally pretty regular. I use this online calendar to track my cycle and I'm always a day or two on track. All of a sudden this month I'm a full week and a half early. No usual PMS signs or anything. I'm not any more stressed than usual and the only medication I'm taking is over the counter cough syrup.

A week doesn't sound like it's something to get all freaked out over, but we've been trying to conceive for going on 2 years now, so any little thing out of the ordinary makes me nervous (and pisses me off!).

Any ideas? It's probably nothing, right? This kind of thing happens? ]]> Ladies Lounge http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151764-used-regular-what-happened.html http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151750-squirting.html Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:10:39 GMT I know squirting is a big thing in porn, but how many women can actually do it? It's a recent discovery that my girlfriend can, which I was awe struck at, and she was completely indifferent to. So I'm wondering, how common is it? ]]> Ladies Lounge Salem http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151750-squirting.html http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151717-obsessed-over-boyfriend-advice-needed.html Fri, 30 Oct 2009 18:20:26 GMT I have talked about this before a little bit here, but I'm going crazy and I don't know what to do anymore. I'm hoping maybe I can get some good input or understanding regarding my situation.

I have been dating my 23 yr. old boyfriend going on 7 months now, I am 30. We've had three serious fights, to the point where we almost broke up on two out of the three fights. We had a little dispute this last weekend about the same thing that we can't seem to get over. Which is he is always really busy now, wasn't always when we first dated. He's taking a full load at school, 5 classes, which we are taking one together. I am not that busy, I have a full time job, a couple close friends, one main one that I have all my social time with, and the one college class. I know I demand too much time with him, but it feels like he has less and less time for me over the period we've been dating.

Now we've talked about this, and this is another aspect that has been thrown in. I am bi-curious and he's told me this last weekend, so recent, to go ahead and see what it's like with a woman without him. He said that he still loves me and wants to be with me, but understands that he doesn't have all the time in the world and wants me to experience this on my own. He also said it would be different if I were to date other men, he wouldn't like that. We originally talked about having a threesome, but me being so jealous, it wasn't going to happen for now anyways. I know, not fair for him. So I know he's still into me, just is he subconciously trying to push me away? I've asked him and he says no.

I love him but also know that I am way too obsessed over him. I'm always insecure and feeling like he's going to leave me or cheat on me as well. And I think it's because I feel like he's the most amazing man I have ever been with, and there's only one other person who made me feel this way when I was 18-19 yrs. old, and he was a potential dating boyfriend who turned into a friend.

What would you do if you were me? Oh and if you know anything about astrology, our Western signs match up, me Cancer, him Pisces, but our chinese signs clash totally, me Goat, and him Tiger. I may be too soft and needy for him and he may be too independent and careless for me. That's what it feels like sometimes anyways. Let me know. And I know, long post, just needed to get this out. ]]> Ladies Lounge crystalan http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151717-obsessed-over-boyfriend-advice-needed.html http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151688-would-you-do-nude-photography.html Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:15:43 GMT My friend is an aspiring photographer, and she just got a new camera. She's asked me to pose nude for her. I'm not sure what to say. My gut reaction says no, but then I think, well why not? Its just a body, many people have seen me naked already and I'm fairly comfortable with my body, no it's not perfect but maybe that's the point you know?

So I'm asking you all, what would you do, if you were me? ]]> Ladies Lounge Salem http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151688-would-you-do-nude-photography.html http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151658-sex-small-town-how-not.html Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:25:02 GMT Hi, I'm 26. I was married for five years with the only guy I ever had sex with. I'm new here and have this question on my mind. I'm seperated since July and living 3,000 miles apart from my partner. I'm in a small community of 10,000 people. When you talk with someone, you hear two days later that you're dating them. When you're not! So my dilema is this. I don't want my business the talk of the town and have been discretely seeing this black guy. All's fine and we're good friends too. The sex is the best I've ever had. He's just a really nice guy and we've been friends with benefits for the past 7 or so weeks. He was away for a week and I met another guy and ended up having sex and sleeping over at his a couple of times. He has the most beautiful house/villa! Do I carry on casually seeing them both (without letting them know)? It's such a small place and I was wondering if other women on this forum had juggled men behind closed doors?

I feel I should pick one of them, but then if I were morally strong, I'd tell them both off (I'm still legally married). ]]> Ladies Lounge taurus http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ladies-lounge/151658-sex-small-town-how-not.html