Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - Tilted Sexuality http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ Sex Talk and Advice en Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:31:38 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/images/insignia/misc/rss.jpg Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - Tilted Sexuality http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/ Kinky thing of the day http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/152027-kinky-thing-day.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:15:39 GMT It's the weekend... what are your plans?

Tonight we are going to a strip club (first time for us) and she will have her hand on my unmentionables the whole time - she loves feeling me getting hard, even if it is from looking at someone else than her.

Don't get me wrong - I wake up every night sometime around 2 AM and feel her body next to me, and I am instantly aroused. But we have an agreement that we can both "look at the menu" as long as we don't eat.

Tomorrow, after taking in a hockey game, we will have sex on the beach. There is something amazing about feeling the cold air every time you pull out.

I know that our plans are not all that super crazy... anyone have something nuttier that they plan on? ]]> Tilted Sexuality dddave http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/152027-kinky-thing-day.html Guide to dirty talk? http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/152021-guide-dirty-talk.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:02:43 GMT So my girlfriend is really shy, and as such isn't too great at "dirty talk" in the bedroom. She likes to dress up in costumes (schoolgirl, cheerleader, halloween costumes, etc) while we do our thing and pretend she's whatever she's dressed as, but as for conveying that with words and generally just acting/talking "naughty" for lack of a better term, she's admittedly not very good at it. I've tried to give her some tips, but they just haven't really sunk in, and she responds really well to reading articles about these types of things.

So I was wondering if anyone had any ebooks/blogs/articles on bedroom roleplaying and talking dirty, specifically geared towards the ladies. Thanks in advance! ]]> Tilted Sexuality StuffGuyDude http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/152021-guide-dirty-talk.html <![CDATA[Celebrate "Wicked Weekend"]]> http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151987-celebrate-wicked-weekend.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:55:54 GMT My wife and I are working to establish a new holiday, and this year we are inviting all of you to participate. It is "Wicked Weekend", which occurs each year on the weekend immediately preceding Thanksgiving. (OK, American Thanksgiving. Sorry to confuse the Canadians.)

This is the last calm weekend before the insanity between Thanksgiving and New Year's. Take advantage of this time to plan a little something sexual and special. It doesn't have to be incredibly wild, just pick something a bit out of the ordinary for you and your partner(s, to include the Lurkbastlunas). We've had elaborate celebrations (a treasure hunt ending at a sex motel) and simple celebrations (fuck while watching an adult video).

Please join us this year. In a way, it's like an orgy, stretched over a very large distance. ]]> Tilted Sexuality Redlemon http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151987-celebrate-wicked-weekend.html a second kind of male orgasm? http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151982-second-kind-male-orgasm.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 08:01:56 GMT i guess i might mean third because i'm not referring to a prostate orgasm.

anyway, this happened to me when i was younger, about 18-19. i know of one specific time it happened, i may have done it a second or third time but it's been a long time since i've attempted or thought about it.

when i was much younger, and first learning to masturbate i remember basically exploring myself at every opportunity possible. anyway, i guess one time i lightly drew some fabric like a shirt or something across the very very very tip of the head, like litterally right on the sort of cupped opening of my urethra hole.

it was immensely ticklish, too ticklish. i did it a few times and it felt insane. like a combination of ticklish and really needing to pee. never tried it again for awhile...


as i stated earlier, i was around 18 or so and i remembered this occurrence. so i set out to see what was up. i think i was kneeling in the bathoom or something.... but i took a piece of fabric, i think it was a really soft towel, or a really really light tshirt, and drew it across the tip of my head... again, unbarable ticklishness. i knew the technique was delicate, i was not rubbing it against the head like i was polishing it, i was just barely wisping the towel across the most extremely potruding part of my penis.

but i put my mind to it, and continued, it was terrible, enjoyable, painful ticklishness. i just had this incredible feeling like i was going to expel a stream of urine after a long night of drinking or something. i knew my bladder was mostly empty-ish and was in a situation where cleanup was not a huge deal.

i actually came, but it wasn't what i was used to. i think i tricked my body into peeing and cumming at the same time. who knows.

the relief felt great, something a kin to a long bar-piss and a good orgasm.

the stuff that came out was weird.

it was milky and white, but it wasn't thick and globby. i had seen my own more watery semen before, but this did not resemble it. it was several visible streams that resembled urine, but it was milky white. i have no idea what exactly this urinesemen was, nor do i to this day. i have also never attempted the head tickling orgasm again.


does anyone have any insight on this? ]]> Tilted Sexuality Tusko http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151982-second-kind-male-orgasm.html Ever been caught masturbating? http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151981-ever-been-caught-masturbating.html Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:41:23 GMT I, have had many close calls, but never been caught. Parents have knocked on the door mid act, so i retract my hands form my pants and tell them to enter, and thus never got caught. My SO has never caught me, though there's been mutual masterbation. My grandma almost caught me once, that was horrible. But I've never been caught.

Have you? ]]> Tilted Sexuality Salem http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151981-ever-been-caught-masturbating.html ticklish massage http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151956-ticklish-massage.html Mon, 16 Nov 2009 12:41:36 GMT does anyone out there know if there are massage parlours which, when they massage you, make it extremely ticklish or tickle you during the massage? Or any which you can request for them to tickle you crazy? does anyone out there know if there are massage parlours which, when they massage you, make it extremely ticklish or tickle you during the massage? Or any which you can request for them to tickle you crazy? ]]> Tilted Sexuality realmaniac http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151956-ticklish-massage.html Embrace your inner Vampire, give a Rainbow Kiss http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151915-embrace-your-inner-vampire-give-rainbow-kiss.html Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:38:37 GMT For those of you who don't know (or who use different phasing - feel free to share your slang)
Quote:
Rainbow Kiss (v): performing oral sex on a woman while she is having her menstrual cycle
A friend of mine and I were joking about Rainbow Kisses, somewhere along the conversation I was gargling with the blood and then chewing on a clot. Now while that is not exactly what I had in mind, I have been, shall we say, curious about the whole thing. Meaning I would like to go down on a woman on her rag.

That said, I would like to hear from those who have participated in the Rainbow. Be you the tasted or the taster.
Oh, and ideas about safety are welcome as well. ]]> Tilted Sexuality dd3953 http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151915-embrace-your-inner-vampire-give-rainbow-kiss.html shunga sensations balm http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151905-shunga-sensations-balm.html Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:04:09 GMT has anyone use or heard of anyone who used this stuff? i want to try it ut to help prolong my ejaculation. i hear it also smells good. but before i actually buy some i just wanted to make sure it actually works. is there anything better quality? because the chick at my sex shop said it was the best... has anyone use or heard of anyone who used this stuff? i want to try it ut to help prolong my ejaculation. i hear it also smells good. but before i actually buy some i just wanted to make sure it actually works. is there anything better quality? because the chick at my sex shop said it was the best stuff they had. ]]> Tilted Sexuality vicdaman http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151905-shunga-sensations-balm.html Spurts http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151876-spurts.html Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:11:08 GMT When you or your SO comes, does the number of spurts catch your attention? Have you made any observations? Personally I notice it when I come. The more spurts the more I get exited, and vice versa! The maximum number of spurts I had in single orgasm was 7. And that is just once in my life.... When you or your SO comes, does the number of spurts catch your attention? Have you made any observations?

Personally I notice it when I come. The more spurts the more I get exited, and vice versa!
The maximum number of spurts I had in single orgasm was 7. And that is just once in my life. Average is ~3.

My observation about spurts is the more prolonged my orgasm, the more the spurts are. And I am left with more pleasure and relief when I have more spurts ]]> Tilted Sexuality curiousbear http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151876-spurts.html chronic masturbation and sex. A scientific inquiry http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151857-chronic-masturbation-sex-scientific-inquiry.html Sun, 08 Nov 2009 22:26:48 GMT i've been a chronic masturbator for quite a while. i often wonder if there is a relationship between CM and 1) sexual stamina 2) arousal ability etc.

I think i am going to practice some restraint and reduce my jerksessions to less than daily and go back to what i used to do when i was 12... fantasize, use my brain.

Hypothesis: Chronic masturbation has an effect on both sexual stamina, and ability to get and maintain an erection

Prediction: Reducing masturbation should affect SEXPOWER so that erections are maintained for longer when not directly stimulated (i.e. doesn't soften up after 10 minutes of making out) and stay fully erect when thrusting (doesn't go to that sort of 7/8ths stage about halfway through and then get erect again. Perhaps that is more closely related to the choice of sexual positions though)

Methods: Masturbation, my imagination, girls and sexual intercourse.


Please, post your critiques and discussions

Hopefully, if i don't give up and go rub one out right after this post, i'll update this every 2 weeks or so with how it has affected my sexual health

I have thought of a possible confounding factor: what if the intensity/length of a jerk session has more influence over sexual performance than anything? Does masturbation as a "oh i've got 5 mins to kill better rub one out" tool thus train your body for these short bursts of sexual energy? When masturbating, should you instead try to more accurately simulate the longer, slightly dynamic arousal levels of intercourse?

Perhaps i will instead perform a daily experiment but instead of just finishing up in record time and moving on (usually between studying or something mundane) make sure it is a prolonged, enjoyable experience- instead of one of simple utility? ]]> Tilted Sexuality Tusko http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151857-chronic-masturbation-sex-scientific-inquiry.html <![CDATA[The Ethics of Tempting Someone to "Switch Teams"]]> http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151843-ethics-tempting-someone-switch-teams.html Sat, 07 Nov 2009 22:50:31 GMT Heterosexual, bi-curious, bisexual, and homosexual. Oh and transgendered. And asexual. And those that choose not to label themselves.

So let's say you're a heterosexual male and you become friends with a homosexual female (if you're a lady reading this, switch the genders from here on in, please). Yes, it happens. You didn't become friends with this woman to "change" her or any other egotistical, chauvinistic bullshit, but simply because she's cool and you maybe have common interests and principles. In the normal course of friendship, occasionally boundaries can be broken. Maybe you go from friend to flirting, on instinct, and she reciprocates. Maybe she flirts first. The point is that you get the impression that she may not be totally homosexual and is showing a romantic, not just platonic, interest. And again it's not about ego or conquering or changing someone.

This seems very shaky ethical ground. You could play it safe/respectful and keep things at the friend level, and let the other stuff drop completely. You could test the water a bit, flirt more, ask questions, etc. You could dive in head-first and tell her that you may be developing romantic feelings and you think she might be developing the same feelings.

There are adequate arguments for each of these. Obviously not making any active movements on the subject is a sign that you respect her to understand who she is. Maybe you misinterpreted the flirting, it's happened before. The second seems equally safe, respecting her but also, in your role as friend, giving her an outside observation. The worst that could happen is the questions are too much and you move on to something else. The last, and arguably most controversial, would be about being honest about yourself, which is important in a friendship or a romantic relationship.

It's all very complicated, especially if you're not as acclimated with the idea of bisexuality and homosexuality. Recently, I found myself in a situation not totally unlike this and decided to simply bite my tongue. I've misread signals before and I value the friendship waaay too much to put it through that kind of awkwardness. I also truly respect her sexuality and feel that I wouldn't be acting consistently with that respect if I started "testing" her.

So what are your thoughts on the issue? Do you have any experience? Are you heterosexual and don't know? Are you bisexual or homosexual with any experience in this area? How would you react? ]]> Tilted Sexuality Willravel http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151843-ethics-tempting-someone-switch-teams.html On impotence http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151821-impotence.html Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:02:00 GMT Now...the thing is, my whole life - I have always been able to get an erection pretty much within 1 minute of thinking about it, or being in any kind of sexy situation, even multiple times in one sitting. It can happen also when I dont particularly want it to, and never in my life have I not been... Now...the thing is, my whole life - I have always been able to get an erection pretty much within 1 minute of thinking about it, or being in any kind of sexy situation, even multiple times in one sitting. It can happen also when I dont particularly want it to, and never in my life have I not been able to get one when I did want to, until last night.

I was with my girlfriend, and we were like in bed together, kissing and so on...and I kind of kept getting a semi and then losing it again. She didnt make a big deal about it and without going into details we did something else that didnt involve the need for an erection on my behalf. She didnt make a big deal out of it, and I tried to act calm - but personally I am pretty concerned.

To answer the obvious questions - I didnt drink that night at all, I do smoke (only cigarettes and not much), I have been under a lot of pressure this week at work and havent had a day off in 12 days, I am overweight, I am in my early 30's - but this has NEVER happened to me before.

On the way to work this morning on the bus I was idly directing a porno movie in my head and without thinking about it got a hard on then which I had to repress by imagining my balls being rapped in a towell full of ice cubes - so I dont think anything is medically wrong with me - but I dont know if I should go and see a doctor in any case? When I got home tonight I watched a porno video for 5 minutes and nothing happened again.

Could this just be a one off, or could there be something seriously wrong with me? Obviously its the kind of thing I only have any experience or knowledge of with regards to myself, I dont know how it is for other men. ]]> Tilted Sexuality Anonymous Member http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151821-impotence.html Psychology, Erection and Condoms http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151806-psychology-erection-condoms.html Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:32:55 GMT I have run a search for this and read about 15 threads and didn't see any discussion directly related to my situation. If I've missed the correct thread please feel free to move this.

This is probably a bit long, but I do think it's all somehow relevant.

I got set up with a girl through a mutual friend about 3 months ago and we went out a couple times. She'd been out of any kind of relationship for quite a while (not exactly sure how long, but I'm thinking a couple of years). Because of that we took things fairly slowly at first, way more 'heavy petting' etc then I'd thought was possible at 26.

After about a month or so we were at the same mutual friends wedding and got a room together at the hotel. After the reception we went back to the room and looked to be getting down to business. We were 'warming' up for a good while before moving forward. I put on a condom and we tried to have sex, however, she was so tight that it was impossible. She was wet was saying she wanted to, but it's like she was clenching herself closed. We tried for probably 30 minutes, during which I stayed rock hard the whole time. Eventually we had to stop because it was hurting her. Turns out we somehow ended up causing a small tear in her vagina.

This incident definitely had an impact on me, as I can't stand the idea of causing pain to a girl during sex. Fast forward to the present and we have had sex a couple of times; now, however, I'm having trouble staying hard as soon as I put on the condom.

She's definitely much more vanilla then other girls I've been with (everything we've done has been missionary, and I'm definitely an ass man) and she's very tentative about sex (won't go down on me, is very quiet, fairly still during) yet she verbally is always very positive and gets very physically aroused.

Background info: The last couple of girls I was with were longer term things/BC and we weren't using condoms. I've always used this same brand (Lifestyles ultra-sensitive) and I even use them when masturbating. I have no problem get/staying hard with one on when I'm by myself, or again the first time we tried. Correction, the first time we tried I was using and Inspiral, which I've liked in the past, but with what happened with here I haven't gone back to that.

I think a big part of it is that for me the girl's pleasure/orgasm is very important and it's been very tricky to get her really into it, though she says she rarely cums (and doesn't own/use any toys), combined with our strange experience early on I feel that our bedroom time is sort of awkward. She keeps contact me though and expressing her desire to have sex so I'm really confused.

Well I'm pretty much rambling now, but hopefully one of the carnal sages on here will have something interesting to proffer. ]]> Tilted Sexuality qweds http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151806-psychology-erection-condoms.html Cleavage at work http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151797-cleavage-work.html Thu, 05 Nov 2009 05:24:55 GMT I guess I don't really have a specific question or insightful observation here. There's an attractive girl at work, equipped with a rather impressive set of boobs. She has a tendency to wear outfits that display a fair amount of cleavage - not complete exposure all the time or anything, but enough so that during a normal interaction there's going to be plenty of opportunity for some eye candy. I wonder about a few things.

How much looking is acceptable or appropriate? There's obviously a line to be crossed here - leering, staring, or sexual comments are clearly over the line...but how much is too much? Should people try to completely avoid looking at the area? Is occasional appreciation socially 'ok'? From my perspective as a hetero guy with a boob fetish, only a great force of would allow me to never look at the cleavage. I could probably manage it though, if I thought it was important enough.

What about from the lady's perspective? I mean, obviously she has to know what she's showing off - pretty much everything she wears has these properties, and there are plenty of women with equally impressive breasts who don't show any cleavage at work. Is she choosing the outfits simply because they look nice, she's comfortable with her body, and doesn't mind a little cleavage showing? Her clothes do look nice - she dresses professionally (unless you consider showing cleavage unprofessional) in a decidedly feminine way. The clothes she wears don't strike me as overly sexual or revealing aside from the cleavage showing. Her attitude is 100% professional, but relaxed. She doesn't flirt seriously with me or with anyone else that I've noticed, so I don't think she's trying to sexualize the office environment, or use her sexuality in an inappropriate way.

I would think that if she didn't want people to notice and appreciate, she would make different clothing choices. But at the same time, I don't think she's looking for her male coworkers to hit on her, or to use her body to get any kind of advantages or favors. My best guess is that she thinks that boobs are neat, hers are spectacular, and she's happy to show them off a little bit, and doesn't mind people appreciating the cleavage; but she's a professional, and expects other people to act professionally.

She is, incidentally, pretty good at her job, and has a boyfriend (he looks like he'd fit right in at 'hot chicks with douchebags', but that's another matter entirely).

What do you think? Cleavage appreciation good? At work? Should she cover the cleavage up at work?

In a similar vein, there's another girl I interact with occasionally at work that has 'large' boobs, who wears those stretchy tight-fitting tops every single day. No cleavage, but definite eye-candy. Again, can't be an accident, and afaict the situation is the same. There are also plenty of other attractive women at my office, of course, and plenty of legs on display, etc. I'm a breast man, so...

To be clear, by 'appreciation', I mean enjoying, with occasional glances lasting less than a second each.

Oh, and another question - do you think she notices occasional glances of appreciation? Do you think she minds them? ]]> Tilted Sexuality robot_parade http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151797-cleavage-work.html Cum play http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151769-cum-play.html Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:01:00 GMT My wife of 1.5 years and I have a rocking sex life, at least as far as both of us getting what we want.

I'm curious about a fetish we've developed which has to do with how/where I cum. It started with her telling me a while back that she loves when I come on her stomach or breasts.

It's evolved over time to include coming inside of her... she loves to feel it drip out afterwards. I am incredibly turned on by just thinking of her pussy being full of my cum. She goes berserk with pleasure when I dip my finger into her and then rub my cum all over her nipples and neck.

Last night I came inside of her three times (OK, twice last night, once first thing this AM) and we both went nuts over how sloppy and messy she was.

Other times she wants me to cum on her chest and rub it all over her.

My first wife always got up to run to the bathroom immediately after sex so she could clean up. My current wife loves to wake up later feeling wet, sticky and used. I think it's HOT.

I'm curious if anyone has a similar fetish. ]]> Tilted Sexuality dddave http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-sexuality/151769-cum-play.html