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elliestar · 05-15-2008, 02:32 PM

I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing orgasm.

It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself.

I'm now 18 and still use the baby bouncer to orgasm when I can. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing up and down in the thing!

The problem is the bouncer is obviously not designed to hold the weight of an 18year old girl and I've noticed that some parts look like they might not last much longer. I've also noticed some cracks in the wall above the door frame.

I am considering buying a new baby bouncer and continuing to masterbate in this way, but I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way.

I feel unable to discuss this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal?

Thanx,
Ellie x

Cynthetiq · 05-15-2008, 02:36 PM

if you get off, who's to say you're doing it wrong. Sounds like you're doing it just right.

RetroGunslinger · 05-15-2008, 02:43 PM

While I think this is more suited for the Ladies Lounge, but have you ever tried just walking into a sex shop and seeing what happens?

elliestar · 05-15-2008, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by RetroGunslinger

While I think this is more suited for the Ladies Lounge, but have you ever tried just walking into a sex shop and seeing what happens?

I think you are right. Sorry. How can I get this moved to the ladies lounge??

RetroGunslinger · 05-15-2008, 02:48 PM

I'm sure a mod will take notice. It's not that it has to be there, mind you, I'm perfectly willing to talk masturbation methods with you.

Cynthetiq · 05-15-2008, 02:48 PM

moved to the ladies lounge by request... no more men in the thread please.

Sweetpea · 05-15-2008, 03:25 PM

I have to second Cyn here.... if it works... it works. there is no
'right' or 'wrong' way to enjoy yourself.

Have you tried vibrators though? they are portable... whereas, I would guess what you're using right now isn't.

I use a vibrator on my clit in circular motions when I get off

excellent.

sweetpea

Starkizzer · 05-15-2008, 05:42 PM

As stated by the ladies above, don't fix it if it ain't broken! But if you are looking for more convenient less wall damaging methods then there are a multitude of things you can try. Just be proud of yourself for finding a way to get off, this is something many struggle with for a long time.

The tub method was my favorite when I was single. Though it is a terrible waste of water when I first discovered it it felt so good I couldn't help but doing it sometimes. It was funny when I stopped using this method and my parents commented on the water bills dropping a little for no apparent reason. LOL

BTW the tub method is basically lying on your back in the bath tub, scooting yourself down until your clit is under the faucet so that the water will hit it. The stimulation cause by the running water is pretty damn good. This also alows you to control the pressure unlike the hand held shower heads that I have found are either too strong or not enough....geez I sound like Goldilocks!

jewels · 05-15-2008, 05:56 PM

You might check into adult sex swings and chairs. There are many different types and although are generally designed for couples, I'm sure you can find one that'll work for your needs.

Google "sex swings" and look around.

Oh and you're not weird. We all have our own idiosyncratic behaviors. That's what keeps life interesting.

KRM28152 · 05-16-2008, 11:31 AM

Do what makes you feel good.

You're not hurting anyone and you're having an amazing orgasm. Where's the harm?

You may not be willing to go this far, but there is the fetish of adult babies, and the stores that cater to this fetish may have a bouncer like you use for a bigger person that the fetishists use in their play. I don't know, I've never looked into it, but it may be a place to look!

I hope this helps, but I agree, if it works, it works. =)

finney · 05-17-2008, 09:38 AM

Yeah, there is no normal or abnormal way to masturbate, as long as you're not hurting yourself (or anyone else) and you're getting off.

The thing is, it's really easy to train our bodies to orgasm in one specific way, so that when we try another method, it doesn't work as well. I second going to a sex shop and seeing if there's anything that interests you in there, and also just not using the bouncer for a while. You might be frustrated at first, but I'm sure you'll find other ways to orgasm, so that you can save the bouncer for "special" occasions.

elliestar · 05-18-2008, 04:19 PM

I do masterbate in 'normal' ways as well, but the feeling just isnt the same.I really dont know if I could give up the bouncer. My only worry is it might break, or I might end up ripping the door frame down - which wouldnt go down well with my parents!

I guess I could try and reduce the amount I use it and stick to more conventional methods.

ColonelSpecial · 05-19-2008, 12:13 AM

It sounds like the bouncer chair fits in between the door frame on a spring bar. If this is the case, see if you can retro fit it to be hung from a hook screwed or hammered into a joist. This will provide more support and save the strain on the door frame.

BlueEyes · 05-19-2008, 12:55 AM

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I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

I think it really sucks that women feel this way. I know that before I knew much about sex, I was really ashamed of myself when I would masturbate and the way that I did it. Girls should know that it is okay, and normal for them to make their bodies feel good.

ngdawg · 05-19-2008, 06:40 AM

Well, now, this is interesting on a few levels:

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/show...2&page=1&pp=10

finney · 05-19-2008, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ColonelSpecial

It sounds like the bouncer chair fits in between the door frame on a spring bar. If this is the case, see if you can retro fit it to be hung from a hook screwed or hammered into a joist. This will provide more support and save the strain on the door frame.

I get the impression the OP still lives at home, so this one would be a little tough to explain. It's a good idea though, just not seeing it as a workable option here.

ShaniFaye · 05-19-2008, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by ngdawg

Well, now, this is interesting on a few levels:

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/show...2&page=1&pp=10

yeah especially the fact that that one states she's 17

ngdawg · 05-19-2008, 05:54 PM

Plus....there's something odd about the whole scenario. A 17 year old has a baby bouncer in her room that is ripping out the molding and her folks don't know it? And they have weight limits...

elliestar · 05-21-2008, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by ngdawg

Plus....there's something odd about the whole scenario.omg A 17 year old has a baby bouncer in her room that is ripping out the molding and her folks don't know it? And they have weight limits...

I was 17 when I posted on the other forum.As for what you say, my parents don't know as I have been very careful to keep it a secret, for obvious reasons.If you think it is an odd scenario then that is fine, but I still value other peoples opinions. I posted here anonymously as I feel unable to talk to my friends about the problem.

teresita · 05-27-2008, 03:31 PM

For all of us who liked the water method as little girls, there is a grown up method called Wet Kisses. My boyfriend got it off the internet, I'll have to find out where and pass the info along. It's a hose that connects to your shower head and water can be diverted directly wherever you point the thing in a variety of pressures. Sure beats the numbing effects of a vibrator!

05-15-2008, 02:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
elliestar Banned Join Date: May 2008	Masturbation Method I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal. When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing orgasm. It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself. I'm now 18 and still use the baby bouncer to orgasm when I can. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing up and down in the thing! The problem is the bouncer is obviously not designed to hold the weight of an 18year old girl and I've noticed that some parts look like they might not last much longer. I've also noticed some cracks in the wall above the door frame. I am considering buying a new baby bouncer and continuing to masterbate in this way, but I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way. I feel unable to discuss this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal? Thanx, Ellie x

05-15-2008, 02:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Manhattan, NY	if you get off, who's to say you're doing it wrong. Sounds like you're doing it just right. __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, Indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Independent, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

05-15-2008, 02:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
RetroGunslinger Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: An Area of Space Occupied by a Population, SC, USA	While I think this is more suited for the Ladies Lounge, but have you ever tried just walking into a sex shop and seeing what happens? __________________ To summarize: It's a rare pleasure in this world to get your mind fucked. Usually it's just foreplay. The best porn is gun porn. It's only rape if the bitch lives. Suffer For Your Art

05-15-2008, 02:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
RetroGunslinger Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: An Area of Space Occupied by a Population, SC, USA	I'm sure a mod will take notice. It's not that it has to be there, mind you, I'm perfectly willing to talk masturbation methods with you. __________________ To summarize: It's a rare pleasure in this world to get your mind fucked. Usually it's just foreplay. The best porn is gun porn. It's only rape if the bitch lives. Suffer For Your Art

05-15-2008, 02:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Manhattan, NY	moved to the ladies lounge by request... no more men in the thread please. __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, Indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Independent, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

05-15-2008, 03:25 PM	#7 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: in love	I have to second Cyn here.... if it works... it works. there is no 'right' or 'wrong' way to enjoy yourself. Have you tried vibrators though? they are portable... whereas, I would guess what you're using right now isn't. I use a vibrator on my clit in circular motions when I get off excellent. sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself"

05-15-2008, 05:42 PM	#8 (permalink)
Starkizzer Hi floor! Make me a samwich. Join Date: May 2005 Location: Victorville/Pomona	As stated by the ladies above, don't fix it if it ain't broken! But if you are looking for more convenient less wall damaging methods then there are a multitude of things you can try. Just be proud of yourself for finding a way to get off, this is something many struggle with for a long time. The tub method was my favorite when I was single. Though it is a terrible waste of water when I first discovered it it felt so good I couldn't help but doing it sometimes. It was funny when I stopped using this method and my parents commented on the water bills dropping a little for no apparent reason. LOL BTW the tub method is basically lying on your back in the bath tub, scooting yourself down until your clit is under the faucet so that the water will hit it. The stimulation cause by the running water is pretty damn good. This also alows you to control the pressure unlike the hand held shower heads that I have found are either too strong or not enough....geez I sound like Goldilocks! __________________ Formerly LCfedup Starkizzer Fan Club President: im2smrt4u Vice President: Tully Mars Secretary of the Interior: jerseyboy

05-15-2008, 05:56 PM	#9 (permalink)
jewels Eponymous Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: The Space Coast	You might check into adult sex swings and chairs. There are many different types and although are generally designed for couples, I'm sure you can find one that'll work for your needs. Google "sex swings" and look around. Oh and you're not weird. We all have our own idiosyncratic behaviors. That's what keeps life interesting. __________________ Politics is applesauce. - Will Rogers Last edited by jewels; 05-15-2008 at 06:00 PM.

05-16-2008, 11:31 AM	#10 (permalink)
KRM28152 Upright Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: I go to school in Shelby, NC but I'm from Charlotte.	Do what makes you feel good. You're not hurting anyone and you're having an amazing orgasm. Where's the harm? You may not be willing to go this far, but there is the fetish of adult babies, and the stores that cater to this fetish may have a bouncer like you use for a bigger person that the fetishists use in their play. I don't know, I've never looked into it, but it may be a place to look! I hope this helps, but I agree, if it works, it works. =) __________________ “I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.” -Frank Sinatra

05-17-2008, 09:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
finney Upright Join Date: Apr 2008	Yeah, there is no normal or abnormal way to masturbate, as long as you're not hurting yourself (or anyone else) and you're getting off. The thing is, it's really easy to train our bodies to orgasm in one specific way, so that when we try another method, it doesn't work as well. I second going to a sex shop and seeing if there's anything that interests you in there, and also just not using the bouncer for a while. You might be frustrated at first, but I'm sure you'll find other ways to orgasm, so that you can save the bouncer for "special" occasions.

05-18-2008, 04:19 PM	#12 (permalink)
elliestar Banned Join Date: May 2008	I do masterbate in 'normal' ways as well, but the feeling just isnt the same.I really dont know if I could give up the bouncer. My only worry is it might break, or I might end up ripping the door frame down - which wouldnt go down well with my parents! I guess I could try and reduce the amount I use it and stick to more conventional methods.

05-19-2008, 12:13 AM	#13 (permalink)
ColonelSpecial Insane Join Date: Sep 2004	It sounds like the bouncer chair fits in between the door frame on a spring bar. If this is the case, see if you can retro fit it to be hung from a hook screwed or hammered into a joist. This will provide more support and save the strain on the door frame. __________________ "Mommy, the presidents are squishing me!" "Using the pull out method of contraceptive is like saying I won't use a seat belt, I'll just jump out of the car before it hits that tree." Sara

05-19-2008, 06:40 AM	#15 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: on the back, bitch	Well, now, this is interesting on a few levels: http://www.hipforums.com/forums/show...2&page=1&pp=10

05-19-2008, 05:54 PM	#18 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: on the back, bitch	Plus....there's something odd about the whole scenario. A 17 year old has a baby bouncer in her room that is ripping out the molding and her folks don't know it? And they have weight limits...

05-27-2008, 03:31 PM	#20 (permalink)
teresita Upright Join Date: May 2008	For all of us who liked the water method as little girls, there is a grown up method called Wet Kisses. My boyfriend got it off the internet, I'll have to find out where and pass the info along. It's a hose that connects to your shower head and water can be diverted directly wherever you point the thing in a variety of pressures. Sure beats the numbing effects of a vibrator!