papermonster

I'm asking this in the woman's section, because I don't care for the men to respond.

is it the woman, man, or the act?

I think I watch mostly for the woman. Well that is what turns me on the most, or atleast what catches my attention.
(I'm married to a man and happy to boot)

onesnowyowl

Tits. I love watching tits bounce up and down. There's really no other way to put it. I like boobs, any size, as long as there is movement in them. I like any aspect of porn where there is breast play, whether it's a man licking and sucking or a woman.

There are more, but I'll have to think on it.

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papermonster

Me too! breast play is my favorite as well. or watching woman masturbate close up...

anti fishstick

i'm always attracted to the women. I like ass, and tits too... I like seeing women go down on each other or on a guy... I also like watching anal sex. Definitely, the sounds turn me on too...

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papermonster

for some reason the sounds gross me out, especially if they are being overdramatic. i watch porn on silent, lol. :P

abaya

Welcome, papermonster!! Always glad to see a new member, especially one who dives right into posting!

For me, I actually really like the sounds leading up to orgasm, though I usually can't turn it up too loud... I used to just plug in headphones, sometimes. But the main thing that turns me on is seeing the XXX action--the old in-and-out, basically. If the porn focused only on the act of penetration the whole time, that would be just fine for me.

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Peaches

For me it's the whole scenario. The actions and reactions of the couple to each other. The sound is a turn on if it's real. If it's over the top and seems like acting, it's a turn off. I think one of the most important things for me is that it's got to seem real. I've got to be able to envision myself in a similar scenario, feeling the same things.

jewels

Nothing like a stiff cock with a tongue on it. Or a tongue on a nipple. Okay, so tongues in general.

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maybird

I agree. I like to watch porn antd find myself focusing on the women. I don't watch the man so much...most of them are gross anyways. I love the ass, tits, hair, their sound....as long as it's not fake. I also just likeit when they show the penetration....that's what really turns me on.

ShaniFaye

girl/guy porn does absolutely nothing for me at all....girl/girl will get me going anytime. There is something about a woman's tongue on another woman's nipple that drives me completely banana's....I could watch that all day long

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onesnowyowl

I like girl/girl porn so long as it feels authentic, like the women are actually into it and not just pretending to be for the sake of men everywhere. If it doesn't seem like they're really enjoying it, and they're not really getting into anything hardcore, I'm not interested. I want to see strap-ons being brought out.

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CinnamonGirl

hmmmm... I guess two women would do more for me than guy/girl.... but if given the choice, I'd rather READ porn than WATCH it.

I blame stumbling onto my dad's collection of Penthouse as a kid. Well, that and the fact that Mom was super-conservative about what I was allowed to watch on TV/at the movies, but would let me read pretty much anything I wanted.

And along those lines, I like it very descriptive...but not all romance novel-y.

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*Nikki*

I stick pretty much with girl/girl action.

I am very surprised that I married a man, I have always preferred women sexually.

annie1

I agree with many of you. I do not care for the sounds and usually mute it. Also, the women turn me on more than the men do. They are usually more attractive. The more "realistic" it is the better for me. I also enjoy reading erotica as well, but I enjoy all the plot stuff too, the romancy parts.

HedwigStrange

Well, this answers one of those "Am I odd or is everyone else like this and not talking?" questions. Yeah, I like the ladies in porn way more than men, and I mute everything. I like watching almost every part of sex except oral sex on women - it either looks fake, or you can't see enough for it to be arousing.

Jenna

I would say 80% of the porn I watch is lesbian. The other percentile is usually threesomes with two females and a male. The other is straight porn - mostly blow jobs, and some threesomes and orgies with one female and more than one male.

All aspects turn me on. I haven't really thought deep about the subject and as to what exactly gets me going. I like boobs, a lot. I like looking at beautiful women. And I really like looking at two beautiful women eating each other out.

*Nikki*

Ditto Jenna

dd3953

It's the sounds. The sounds that the body makes as moves against another and the sounds that woman make when she is truly enjoying herself. But dirty talking isn't my thing. Nor do I enjoy listening to it when you can tell it's fake (and I can).

The rest of it is nice and can get me "ready," but the sounds get me hot and I can close my eyes and make up my own pictures/movies.

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girldetective

Im with CinnamonGirl, preferring to read it.

Its interesting that so many women get turned on by watching other women. Why do you think that is?

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velvet

I agree with the over dramatic porn, it's just bad and a turn off . I like it when theirs emotions being play out, and if it's just acting as long as they make it look good then it's great. I turn off the sound as well, I don't know why but it's just better. You tend to make the scenes the way you want, by putting your own sounds and the talking.

CinnamonGirl

Well, at least in the porn industry, the men just aren't very attractive... and the women are. At least, that's what I'm thinking.

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Angelkiss

I'm a fan of kissing more than the actual sex most times. When there's an actual connection, not just a "let's do this and get paid" session. I pay more attention to the man, though - I'm a fan of his 'moving parts' - the swing of the cock and balls. And I could stare at a man's butt for hours! But I'm also like CinnamonGirl - I prefer reading to pictures/movies. Something about the written word puts ME in the situation more than watching someone else.

Lindy

Like Cinnamon Girl and girldetective, I also like to read porn. And I love having porn read to me also.

Visual porn, I like to watch tits. Real tits. I hate plastic tits, so natural only, please. I like the way they jiggle, the way they move. I like the Eastern European girls, mostly. Slim girls with natural boobs that are large for their frame – like me. I like the contrast between the soft breast and the stiff nipple. Or the stiff cock. I like to watch sensuous kissing.

I like the sounds of breathing, movement, and voices if they are real and authentic. If they are really turned on by each other. If it seems scripted, it’s a turn-off. Also if the sound is out of sync –hate that!

I like to look at a nice stiff cock. I like to watch (and give) handjobs and boobjacks. I like to watch it squirt, but I don't especially dig the facial fetish. I like the camera to be far enough back that I can look at the bodies of the girls/guys. Clinical close-ups ruin it for me.
I like to watch the cock penetrate, the initial penetration, but one thing I really don’t like is when the camera settles in for ten minutes of the old in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out. Sheesh! I thought it was a guy thing. Close-us of penis pumping in and out of vagina (or asshole) to me would be like looking at a picture of a beautiful automobile, watch it move around a track, pass through the beautiful leather interior, look at the beautiful engine –and then stop for ten minutes to watch the pistons go up and down in the cylinders. To me its just boring! But I guess that's what the fast forward is for.

Lindy

shoegirl

I'm not sure we didn't grow up in the same house... and stumble across the same Penthouse. I have absolutely no desire to read anything romance novel-ish, but well written smut is fine by me.

Samantha

See I said I was going to lurk and then I found an interesting topic. This is gonna be fun.

Yes I found Dad's stash ... including pics of mom ... that was an interesting momentary ack! But I digress.

For me in the past it has always been the written word that gets me off. I can read naughty books for ages. Variations (is that even around anymore), letters sections of naughty mags, erotic books. I'm not sure that they get me off they just perk the interest. Although being very highly sexed the interest is always in the background anyway. What really gets me off are my own thoughts ... and those well ... those are definitely pornographic.

As for movies, there are some that I find interesting. Usually there is a story involved or the outfits are amazing ... i.e. Andrew Blake, but mostly important is that the people are genuinely interested in each other. Strangely that is rare. That won't be enough to give me the big O but couple that with a BoB and maybe. Mind you after 6 years of masturbating my way through my marriage that has little to no interest to me. Lets see if that changes if I get truly frustrated.

As to the Girl on Girl or Girl on Guy or Guy on Guy ... any of the above ... being bi certainly does have its advantages, I see beauty and erotica in both sets of bodies.

Sadly my ex had a bit of a porn fetish so I have some 'issues' with it. But hoping to work through it so I can be reasonable in future relationships.

Hi! Didn't I mention something about being shy in my introduction post ... oh well this is just between us gals ^.~

lostgirl

Agreed

It has to seem real or it's a turn off. I can tell if the girl faking and it takes away from the whole thing. I also hate it when you can tell it's fake with the sound off.

I like the look of ass, balls, and cock bobbing up and down.

little_tippler

I like written too but these days I need the visual as well. Maybe I'm just more tired so the visual is an instant fix.

I have to say girl on girl does nothing for me.

I like to watch the woman if it's girl/guy, but what I usually like (considering we're talking about good porn, not over-dramatic, with relatively attractive men) is to watch the guy. The body movement, the thrusting, the hands, the cock, and especially sounds. Sex sounds and guys moaning sounds. That is very HOT.

I also like to see a woman's body moving against the guy's body. Noises made by the women (as long as within reason), turn me on a lot. I like to see a woman's body getting handled by the guy's hands.

Sure, women are beautiful, I like to watch that too. But when I watch porn I'm thinking that I'd like a guy to do that to me. So i'm watching the man more. I love to see a guy get off.

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We are ever unapparent. What we are
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Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
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