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RyeZingSon · 07-03-2009, 08:14 PM

Hi all. I wanted to share something and maybe get your thoughts. I am an extremely happily married man with two wonderful children. I just learned today that an ex-girlfriend of mine (We dated for 3 years over 15 years ago) died.

It was an extremely sad story. She died on her honeymoon with her 2nd husband. She was only 33 years old. She left behind 3 kids.

Now I haven't seen or talked to her in over 10 years. Ran into her at a grocery story once.

It still made me very sad. She was my first love and I did buy her a diamond ring, although we never seriously talked marriage.

I just want to take this moment to tell her in my own way that our times together were wonderful for the most part. I still think of her fondly at times. I wish her all the best wherever she may be.

Goodbye sweet one...goodbye.

Willravel · 07-03-2009, 08:27 PM

That's a nice sentiment, I'm sorry she's passed away.

There's something special about your first love.

Punk.of.Ages · 07-03-2009, 08:35 PM

This is a very sad story, man...

You are rightfully sad, and I'm sorry for your loss.

genuinegirly · 07-03-2009, 08:35 PM

Sad. It is good that she is remembered.

squeeeb · 07-03-2009, 11:26 PM

i'm sorry for your loss.

dksuddeth · 07-04-2009, 05:16 AM

a reminder that not all ex's in our lives need be enemies.

JamesB · 07-04-2009, 06:49 AM

I am very sorry to hear of her passing. What a terribly sad story. It is so true, not all exes need to be demonized - we chose to spend precious time with them for a reason at some point, so all deserve some special recognition. My condolences.

07-03-2009, 08:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
RyeZingSon Upright Location: Davenport, Iowa	The Death of an Ex-Girlfriend Hi all. I wanted to share something and maybe get your thoughts. I am an extremely happily married man with two wonderful children. I just learned today that an ex-girlfriend of mine (We dated for 3 years over 15 years ago) died. It was an extremely sad story. She died on her honeymoon with her 2nd husband. She was only 33 years old. She left behind 3 kids. Now I haven't seen or talked to her in over 10 years. Ran into her at a grocery story once. It still made me very sad. She was my first love and I did buy her a diamond ring, although we never seriously talked marriage. I just want to take this moment to tell her in my own way that our times together were wonderful for the most part. I still think of her fondly at times. I wish her all the best wherever she may be. Goodbye sweet one...goodbye. __________________ Everyone should have beliefs. I believe I will have another beer!!

07-03-2009, 08:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter. Location: Behind the brick wall, inside the gray room, at the black desk. Blog Entries: 14	That's a nice sentiment, I'm sorry she's passed away. There's something special about your first love. __________________ "So long as governments set the example of killing their enemies, private citizens will occasionally kill theirs." Elbert Hubbard

07-03-2009, 08:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
Punk.of.Ages Forming Location: ....a state of pure inebriation. Blog Entries: 20	This is a very sad story, man... You are rightfully sad, and I'm sorry for your loss. __________________ "The fact is that censorship always defeats its own purpose, for it creates, in the end, the kind of society that is incapable of exercising real discretion..." - Henry Steel Commager "Punk rock music is great music played by really bad, drunk musicians." -Fat Mike

07-03-2009, 08:35 PM	#4 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville Blog Entries: 138	Sad. It is good that she is remembered. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

07-03-2009, 11:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
squeeeb part of the problem Location: hic et ubique Blog Entries: 54	i'm sorry for your loss. __________________ onward to mayhem!

07-04-2009, 05:16 AM	#6 (permalink)
dksuddeth Junkie Location: bedford, tx	a reminder that not all ex's in our lives need be enemies. __________________ The conspiracy of ignorance masquerades as common sense.

07-04-2009, 06:49 AM	#7 (permalink)
JamesB Insane Location: Ottawa	I am very sorry to hear of her passing. What a terribly sad story. It is so true, not all exes need to be demonized - we chose to spend precious time with them for a reason at some point, so all deserve some special recognition. My condolences. __________________ -- apt-get install spare_time --