chronic masturbation and sex. A scientific inquiry - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Tusko · 11-08-2009, 02:26 PM

i've been a chronic masturbator for quite a while. i often wonder if there is a relationship between CM and 1) sexual stamina 2) arousal ability etc.

I think i am going to practice some restraint and reduce my jerksessions to less than daily and go back to what i used to do when i was 12... fantasize, use my brain.

Hypothesis: Chronic masturbation has an effect on both sexual stamina, and ability to get and maintain an erection

Prediction: Reducing masturbation should affect SEXPOWER so that erections are maintained for longer when not directly stimulated (i.e. doesn't soften up after 10 minutes of making out) and stay fully erect when thrusting (doesn't go to that sort of 7/8ths stage about halfway through and then get erect again. Perhaps that is more closely related to the choice of sexual positions though)

Methods: Masturbation, my imagination, girls and sexual intercourse.

Please, post your critiques and discussions

Hopefully, if i don't give up and go rub one out right after this post, i'll update this every 2 weeks or so with how it has affected my sexual health

I have thought of a possible confounding factor: what if the intensity/length of a jerk session has more influence over sexual performance than anything? Does masturbation as a "oh i've got 5 mins to kill better rub one out" tool thus train your body for these short bursts of sexual energy? When masturbating, should you instead try to more accurately simulate the longer, slightly dynamic arousal levels of intercourse?

Perhaps i will instead perform a daily experiment but instead of just finishing up in record time and moving on (usually between studying or something mundane) make sure it is a prolonged, enjoyable experience- instead of one of simple utility?

MSD · 11-08-2009, 02:41 PM

Masturbating will train your body to finish faster and have more difficulty holding off on finishing. A tight grip will also affect sensitivity and can lead to going soft at inopportune times because there is not a vagina in the world that's as tight as your hand.

World's King · 11-08-2009, 03:53 PM

How often do you have to masturbate for it to be chronic?

Tusko · 11-08-2009, 06:01 PM

beats me. i'm going with more than once a day.

LordEden · 11-08-2009, 06:38 PM

Shit, I wack it 3 times a day if I can get away with it and I know that's not chronic. We talking 3-6 times a day? More than that?

oxxxeee · 11-08-2009, 07:43 PM

just beat it. experts are self proclaimed

Willravel · 11-08-2009, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Tusko

beats me.

Unintentional pun of the week.

Tusko · 11-08-2009, 08:46 PM

who says it was unintentional :P

loquitur · 11-10-2009, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by oxxxeee

just beat it.

So, Michael Jackson was right, eh?

Plan9 · 11-10-2009, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by MSD

Masturbating will train your body to finish faster and have more difficulty holding off on finishing.

Hey now... depends on how you train.

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Originally Posted by MSD

because there is not a vagina in the world that's as tight as your hand.

Pfft... ever dated a gymnast? Some women can open a beer bottle with that thing.

MSD · 11-10-2009, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Plan9

Pfft... ever dated a gymnast? Some women can open a beer bottle with that thing.

(makes note on to-do list.)
Also, equestrians. Horseback riding stance involves pretty much constant kegels.

Plan9 · 11-10-2009, 05:36 PM

Equestrians? Heh. I'm interested in trying out a female rugby player. I hope they're as brutish inside as out.

BogeyDope · 11-10-2009, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MSD

there is not a vagina in the world that's as tight as your hand.

Anal?

Plan9 · 11-10-2009, 08:23 PM

MSD obviously needs to put some more mileage on the beef bus.

Xerxys · 11-10-2009, 08:42 PM

I haven't masturbated in over a month and I don't think it makes a difference, except the fact that I cum like a porn star when I do. The longest I've gone celibate was 3 months of pure workaholic sessions of changing sheets after two nights.

If you keep track of your sexcapades here I'll keep track of mine too.

Willravel · 11-10-2009, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Xerxys

I haven't masturbated in over a month...

Holy shit. Are you getting too much sex or are you trying to do that horrible Josh Hartnett movie thing?

Plan9 · 11-10-2009, 08:59 PM

That's not human, Xerxys. I'd bet even old Mother Teresa rubbed one out every 3 weeks.

Xerxys · 11-10-2009, 09:46 PM

It's the sex, I get LOTS of it!!!!

No that is not it either folk. I just cant do something that gratifying to moderation. In excess is how I do things and masturbating landed me in a precarious position. Whenever I think about wanking I cross my mind onto something else and it winds up being discharged on my sheets at night.

Makes for bizzare dreams though ...

Salem · 11-11-2009, 10:57 AM

That's a very interesting hypothesis. I actually kind of follow. I think you may be right. Let us know how it goes.

rahl · 11-11-2009, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Plan9

That's not human, Xerxys. I'd bet even old Mother Teresa rubbed one out every 3 weeks.

I got married back in september. Me and the now wife decided to obstain from everything for 6 weeks. No sex or masturbation. It was hell for the first week or two then it got so it didn't really matter. The wedding night was AWESOME. Covered her from head to crotch!

donmaytee · 11-15-2009, 09:46 AM

I'd love to be able to do that for 6 week's but i jus't can't.. After i read this about a week a go, i have been trying to not wank, but stupidly it's so hard for me, as soon as i think about it, that's it bahm, can't take my mind off it :/ i am 18 mind, but still!

What sort of thing's do you do instead? Like watch TV etc?

rahl · 11-15-2009, 09:53 AM

Just keep yourself busy with other things. Work, read, play videogames whatever. Anything to keep from being bored.

3GPositive · 11-20-2009, 01:14 PM

Caution: It's possible that the repetitive movements (over many years) can cause "bone spurs" to form in your sholder joint - at least I think thats what they are called.

FuglyStick · 11-20-2009, 02:53 PM

The only reason we have evolved with two hands is so we can still beat off if we lose one. Nature has supplied us with a back-up.

donmaytee · 11-21-2009, 06:35 AM

I've gone 6 day's now

donmaytee · 12-01-2009, 03:26 AM

Now gone 16 days

raging moderate · 12-02-2009, 07:21 PM

i'm on board with the "practice makes perfect" theory. From personal experience, if I get laid and I end up a little "trigger happy", the next time I'm punching the clown I'll make it last for an hour or two, and the next time I'm in the beef it lasts longer. Seriously it' clockwork, and it's my own (formerly) secret training regimen. Because even if your dick is like two beer cans stacked on top of one another, if you can't last awhile then just put the damn thing away already.

sssstevo · 12-13-2009, 01:36 PM

i tried this experiment myself a while ago and heres what i found out. Im guessing the results vary on how you get yourself off, whether your hand is tight, how long you make it last, etc. Personnaly i try to take as long as possible when masturbating and am usually pretty tight. But anyway this is what i found:

Stamina: i couldnt go for long if i hadnt been wanking, however if id been having 2/3 faps a day for the past week then i took a good amount of time to cum. usually about an hour.

Erection: without masturbation i got aroused at almost anything, but didnt neccaserily stay hard for longer or watever. With masturbation however it took usually touching/pinching/squeezing etc to get me hard.

Amount: I'll tell you wat tho, if i didnt wank it felt like all the orgasms i should have had that week were compiled into one. It felt mindblowing! however it left an exit wound in my girlfreind

Xerxys · 12-14-2009, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by sssstevo

... Amount: I'll tell you wat tho, if i didnt wank it felt like all the orgasms i should have had that week were compiled into one. It felt mindblowing! however it left an exit wound in my girlfreind

I love it!

Frankie Zee · 01-06-2010, 02:52 PM

Now that I'm unemployed and taking classes all online, I masturbate usually between two and three times a day. My morning sessions, I usually try to make it last as long as possible. I get the precum flowing and edge until I can't take anymore and explode. At night, before I fall asleep, it's usually much quicker.

When I'm having sex, a lot depends on the girl I'm with. One of my exe's, it didn't matter how often I masturbated. We would have sex for hours at a time and I was able to stay hard the entire time. My most recent gf was different. She moves a little differently and with a condom, it makes it difficult to stay hard for very long unless I can keep her from moving. What's really interesting is the sex rarely lasts as long with any of my more recent partners as it did with that one ex. Unless I've been drinking...couple that with a condom and I can stay fairly hard but have a really hard time finishing.

My belief is that if you take your time while masturbating and make it last, you're more likely going to last longer in bed. But I think there are a lot of other factors to consider as well. Your chemistry with your partner, any foreplay involved, if you two like the same rhythm.

I do have to agree that when I refrain from masturbating for a couple days before giving in, it feels so much better. If I know I'm going to be having a girl over, I try not to masturbate at least one day prior to us having sex. For some reason, it seems to make things a little better overall for the night.

raging moderate · 01-06-2010, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Frankie Zee

condom, it makes it difficult to stay hard for very long unless I can keep her from moving.

I know i'm taking this out of context but I really like this quote. I get the image in my head "GODDAMMIT HOLD STILL I"M TRYING TO HAVE SEX HERE"

Frankie Zee · 01-07-2010, 08:48 PM

Lol, that's not too far from the truth sometimes! I mean, I absolutely love it when the woman is truly enjoying herself but there are times when if the rhythm gets thrown off, it can get frustrating.

11-08-2009, 02:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tusko Insane	chronic masturbation and sex. A scientific inquiry i've been a chronic masturbator for quite a while. i often wonder if there is a relationship between CM and 1) sexual stamina 2) arousal ability etc. I think i am going to practice some restraint and reduce my jerksessions to less than daily and go back to what i used to do when i was 12... fantasize, use my brain. Hypothesis: Chronic masturbation has an effect on both sexual stamina, and ability to get and maintain an erection Prediction: Reducing masturbation should affect SEXPOWER so that erections are maintained for longer when not directly stimulated (i.e. doesn't soften up after 10 minutes of making out) and stay fully erect when thrusting (doesn't go to that sort of 7/8ths stage about halfway through and then get erect again. Perhaps that is more closely related to the choice of sexual positions though) Methods: Masturbation, my imagination, girls and sexual intercourse. Please, post your critiques and discussions Hopefully, if i don't give up and go rub one out right after this post, i'll update this every 2 weeks or so with how it has affected my sexual health I have thought of a possible confounding factor: what if the intensity/length of a jerk session has more influence over sexual performance than anything? Does masturbation as a "oh i've got 5 mins to kill better rub one out" tool thus train your body for these short bursts of sexual energy? When masturbating, should you instead try to more accurately simulate the longer, slightly dynamic arousal levels of intercourse? Perhaps i will instead perform a daily experiment but instead of just finishing up in record time and moving on (usually between studying or something mundane) make sure it is a prolonged, enjoyable experience- instead of one of simple utility? Last edited by Tusko; 11-08-2009 at 02:34 PM..

11-08-2009, 02:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
MSD Why would you ever want to be like me? Moderator Location: CT	Masturbating will train your body to finish faster and have more difficulty holding off on finishing. A tight grip will also affect sensitivity and can lead to going soft at inopportune times because there is not a vagina in the world that's as tight as your hand. __________________ If you catch the evil twin, then why would you keep it alive?

11-08-2009, 03:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
World's King This is Mine! Location: Denver City Denver	How often do you have to masturbate for it to be chronic? __________________ Holy Calamity Scream insanity All you ever gonna be's another great fan of me

11-08-2009, 06:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
LordEden Dread Pirate Hobbits Location: Catfish, NC Blog Entries: 26	Shit, I wack it 3 times a day if I can get away with it and I know that's not chronic. We talking 3-6 times a day? More than that? __________________ In an honest service, there is thin commons, low wages, and hard labour; in this, plenty and satiety, pleasure and ease, liberty and power; and who would not balance creditor on this side, when all the hazard that is run for it, at worst, is only a sower look or two at choaking. No, a merry life and a short one shall be my motto. - Bartholomew Roberts

11-08-2009, 07:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
oxxxeee Upright Location: california	enjoy what you got just beat it. experts are self proclaimed

11-08-2009, 06:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
Tusko Insane	beats me. i'm going with more than once a day.

11-08-2009, 08:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tusko Insane	who says it was unintentional :P

11-10-2009, 05:36 PM	#12 (permalink)
Plan9 Canned Location: Prime Self Blog Entries: 126	Equestrians? Heh. I'm interested in trying out a female rugby player. I hope they're as brutish inside as out. __________________ "War is an ugly thing but not the ugliest of things; the decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feelings which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. A man who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself." Last edited by Plan9; 11-10-2009 at 07:03 PM..

11-10-2009, 08:23 PM	#14 (permalink)
Plan9 Canned Location: Prime Self Blog Entries: 126	MSD obviously needs to put some more mileage on the beef bus. __________________ "War is an ugly thing but not the ugliest of things; the decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feelings which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. A man who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself."

11-10-2009, 08:42 PM	#15 (permalink)
Xerxys I judge you, I judge you all. Location: My head. Blog Entries: 40	I haven't masturbated in over a month and I don't think it makes a difference, except the fact that I cum like a porn star when I do. The longest I've gone celibate was 3 months of pure workaholic sessions of changing sheets after two nights. If you keep track of your sexcapades here I'll keep track of mine too. __________________ Proper planning and preparation prevents piss poor performance.

11-10-2009, 08:59 PM	#17 (permalink)
Plan9 Canned Location: Prime Self Blog Entries: 126	That's not human, Xerxys. I'd bet even old Mother Teresa rubbed one out every 3 weeks. __________________ "War is an ugly thing but not the ugliest of things; the decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feelings which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. A man who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself."

11-10-2009, 09:46 PM	#18 (permalink)
Xerxys I judge you, I judge you all. Location: My head. Blog Entries: 40	It's the sex, I get LOTS of it!!!! No that is not it either folk. I just cant do something that gratifying to moderation. In excess is how I do things and masturbating landed me in a precarious position. Whenever I think about wanking I cross my mind onto something else and it winds up being discharged on my sheets at night. Makes for bizzare dreams though ... __________________ Proper planning and preparation prevents piss poor performance.

11-11-2009, 10:57 AM	#19 (permalink)
Salem Insane Location: Canada	That's a very interesting hypothesis. I actually kind of follow. I think you may be right. Let us know how it goes. __________________ You're just an empty cage girl, if you kill the bird.

11-15-2009, 09:46 AM	#21 (permalink)
donmaytee Upright	I'd love to be able to do that for 6 week's but i jus't can't.. After i read this about a week a go, i have been trying to not wank, but stupidly it's so hard for me, as soon as i think about it, that's it bahm, can't take my mind off it :/ i am 18 mind, but still! What sort of thing's do you do instead? Like watch TV etc? __________________ 'Anyone who says he can see through women is missing a lot.' - Groucho Marx

11-15-2009, 09:53 AM	#22 (permalink)
rahl Addict Location: Ohio	Just keep yourself busy with other things. Work, read, play videogames whatever. Anything to keep from being bored. __________________ "Your life is Yours alone...Rise up and live it"

11-20-2009, 01:14 PM	#23 (permalink)
3GPositive Upright	Caution: It's possible that the repetitive movements (over many years) can cause "bone spurs" to form in your sholder joint - at least I think thats what they are called.

11-20-2009, 02:53 PM	#24 (permalink)
FuglyStick Lecher Ninja Location: Southern Illinois Blog Entries: 9	The only reason we have evolved with two hands is so we can still beat off if we lose one. Nature has supplied us with a back-up. __________________ "If she can't have me, then she can't have the fish"--Donald Earl Fite III, fish killer

11-21-2009, 06:35 AM	#25 (permalink)
donmaytee Upright	I've gone 6 day's now __________________ 'Anyone who says he can see through women is missing a lot.' - Groucho Marx

12-01-2009, 03:26 AM	#26 (permalink)
donmaytee Upright	Now gone 16 days __________________ 'Anyone who says he can see through women is missing a lot.' - Groucho Marx

12-02-2009, 07:21 PM	#27 (permalink)
raging moderate Crazy Location: Whatever house my keys can get me into	i'm on board with the "practice makes perfect" theory. From personal experience, if I get laid and I end up a little "trigger happy", the next time I'm punching the clown I'll make it last for an hour or two, and the next time I'm in the beef it lasts longer. Seriously it' clockwork, and it's my own (formerly) secret training regimen. Because even if your dick is like two beer cans stacked on top of one another, if you can't last awhile then just put the damn thing away already. __________________ These are the good old days... formerly Murp0434

12-13-2009, 01:36 PM	#28 (permalink)
sssstevo Upright Location: England, Leicestershire	i tried this experiment myself a while ago and heres what i found out. Im guessing the results vary on how you get yourself off, whether your hand is tight, how long you make it last, etc. Personnaly i try to take as long as possible when masturbating and am usually pretty tight. But anyway this is what i found: Stamina: i couldnt go for long if i hadnt been wanking, however if id been having 2/3 faps a day for the past week then i took a good amount of time to cum. usually about an hour. Erection: without masturbation i got aroused at almost anything, but didnt neccaserily stay hard for longer or watever. With masturbation however it took usually touching/pinching/squeezing etc to get me hard. Amount: I'll tell you wat tho, if i didnt wank it felt like all the orgasms i should have had that week were compiled into one. It felt mindblowing! however it left an exit wound in my girlfreind

01-06-2010, 02:52 PM	#30 (permalink)
Frankie Zee Upright	Now that I'm unemployed and taking classes all online, I masturbate usually between two and three times a day. My morning sessions, I usually try to make it last as long as possible. I get the precum flowing and edge until I can't take anymore and explode. At night, before I fall asleep, it's usually much quicker. When I'm having sex, a lot depends on the girl I'm with. One of my exe's, it didn't matter how often I masturbated. We would have sex for hours at a time and I was able to stay hard the entire time. My most recent gf was different. She moves a little differently and with a condom, it makes it difficult to stay hard for very long unless I can keep her from moving. What's really interesting is the sex rarely lasts as long with any of my more recent partners as it did with that one ex. Unless I've been drinking...couple that with a condom and I can stay fairly hard but have a really hard time finishing. My belief is that if you take your time while masturbating and make it last, you're more likely going to last longer in bed. But I think there are a lot of other factors to consider as well. Your chemistry with your partner, any foreplay involved, if you two like the same rhythm. I do have to agree that when I refrain from masturbating for a couple days before giving in, it feels so much better. If I know I'm going to be having a girl over, I try not to masturbate at least one day prior to us having sex. For some reason, it seems to make things a little better overall for the night.

01-07-2010, 08:48 PM	#32 (permalink)
Frankie Zee Upright	Lol, that's not too far from the truth sometimes! I mean, I absolutely love it when the woman is truly enjoying herself but there are times when if the rhythm gets thrown off, it can get frustrating.